Sol, I can tell you have a real future ahead of you here on the Divorcebusting site. You're posting like a real pro, I'm proud of ya! Today you are a Survivor. STD and aaawwwaaaay!
Well, I want to be in, I truly do, but I just dont know. I mean I am so new to the collection process that I may not be able to do it right. Maybe you can take some pictures to document the best way of obtaining the specimen. I am sure other "newbies" will appreciate it as well....kind of like a how to manual.
And once again Sol....thanks for your sage advice.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
All you have to do is do whatever Wii is gonna do and you should rack up some wonderful prize-wining STDs in your collection and you'll be able to change them out all the time - a different one for each week!
But then again Wii said he lost "something" bumping into Plant Lady!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
Just thought I'd chime in my own thread. I've been thinking about dating in general, and also fighting those "lonely feelings", but I keep telling myself that this is nonsense to do because I once had various GF's and then I met my XW, and I shouldn't dwell on feeling "lonely" - ah, just natural I guess. And I also need to remind myself that I AM an attractive guy, and I also have certain "types" of women that appeal to me, so dating will come. But still, the pain from the previous R seems to find its way through my suppression of it when I find myself alone at home. That's one of the reasons to just get out, and be around other people. Sometimes my thoughts follow me as I enter a bookstore. But then I see the same gal that serves my coffee or hot cocoa and she is always in a good mood, always smiling at customers - man the bookstore found an excellent employee in THAT young woman! It's funny, when I come up to order and she tends to me, I am not sure if she is flirting with me or that's just the way she is? So I lie to myself and tell myself she's flirting with me - so I flirt back! Anyway, I don't have the nerve to socialize with her with the intent of asking her out, but I do mingle with her a bit. I guess that's just the safety mechanism I am using until I feel more comfortable dating again. To be honest, I'd rather get to know the person over time, build a friendship, and THEN ask them out of something develops. Again, is this just a way to protect my heart and not fall for the first nicest woman I see?
For once, it would be nice for a woman to approach me and ask me out, but I know what some here will say - "maybe the woman that likes me is waiting for ME to ask first?" Ahhh, the dilemma. And then there's the confident thing again for men, I know. Well I thought I was ready for dating, but not just yet I suppose. It's only been a very short time since ending my M, but at least me and the ex are starting to get along a little more as time passes. I really hate fighting with my ex - just ugly!
Well I will post some more later, I have a singles meet to go to - Game Night!!!! Yeepee. Thanks Wii for that site!
Laters!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
Well I will post some more later, I have a singles meet to go to - Game Night!!!! Yeepee. Thanks Wii for that site!
Laters!
Sol, see if you can pick up some STD's tonight...leave the rest of us in dust! Hey, good work in getting out there and mingling, look at it as just mingling. You'll meet woman and other guys who are in the same boat you are, single people looking to meet other singles for an enjoyable get together. Don't worry about working the women, just have fun! I understand what you say about the lonliness feeling, I too think sometimes we spend way too much time thinking about what is missing in our lives and forget about all the great things that are still there. The glass is half full, really! We just have stop looking at the empty half. The rest of the glass will be filled in time, we need to be patient, trust and be willing to do our part to fill that glass. Obsessing about it, as we are sometimes prone to do, will just eventually knock the glass onto the floor! Oops. Have fun tonight, Sol.
