BTW....T2L your advice is absolutely fantastic! It has made me think as well....thank all of you for taking time to post your situations and giving advice to one another..it has helped me so much!!!

Oh and im in AZ so CA is only 5 hours away depending where you are T2L so I would love to come over!!!!

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.