Hi T2L, thanks as always. I am getting better but only in baby steps. I wish I had your strength but I know that it took you a while to get there. Plus I have to work with both of them and that alone sometimes takes my breathe away. That is why I go to the gym 5x a week at lunch. So I don't have to run into them if they are sneaking out for lunch. I can forget for an hour.
As for church I only meant that D15 can see him and that he is making an effort. I gave up for now trying to save his soul. I guess this means your H is not going to church since his A started.

I do have to find a way to laugh with H. I don't even know what to say to him anymore. I am going to e-mail him next time about the financial support (same as you used for your H) to thank him. I know he will like that.

Tonight for GAL, I am meeting some woman and going to dinner and to a play in the next town. I only know 2 of the woman but it is a night out and I need it. I still have not contacted the woman about Irish dancing. My only concern is that sometimes I think they are trying to fix me up with one partner and I don't want to be put into a position I don't want. They are all single people.

take care my friends. And I do count all of you as good ones these days.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09