Ok, so based on the quiz, my H's top 5 in order are: conversation, admiration, domestic support, sexual fulfillment, and family commitment.

I think he rushes to help around the house b/c he's not there and he sees me do a lot extra.

But, he mentions being able to open up, be understood, feel comfortable - all under the conversation heading.

Also, several months ago, he mentioned me never appreciating him, so admiration. But, I do believe his LL is Acts of Service - so he likes thanks through actions.

Lots to think about! Thanks, T2L


Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
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