Faith - You are doing awesome! I also did not engage when my H asked me just yesterday to come by and pickup a folding table he needed to do an open house. I told him that tonight wouldn't work because I had plans. I told him today would work or his mom could drop it off to him. He said ok and left it at that.
Hope - I was LMAO on OW running from you! That was hilarious. It put a smile on your face and I bet you felt pretty good about yourself didnt you??
TxMom - I agree....my MIL actually lived with us and she saw everything happening first hand and did nothing either. She absolutely hates confrontations. I confronted her and told her how that made me feel and her response was what was she suppose to do she is not one to get involved and that I could not expect her to yell at him or "slap" him or something. I just made it clear to her that if my daughter was doing what he was doing you bet I would sit her down and talk to her letting her know the ramifications of her actions.
As for exposing the A, the company did not know about the first only a select few in the office but for the second A everyone knows even the owner and they did nothing either. So that goes to show the integrity of that company to openly accept something like this. I would have gotten nowhere going to them and exposing it. His family (cousins, brother, and friends) know about it but the only cousin he is close to has done the same thing so not really any pressure being applied there. He doesn't talk to his brother. His friends have turned there back to him. They all know me and have stood by my side through this. His friends wives do not want him coming around their husbands.
GALing for me includes taking a dance class. Two girls from work have agreed to join me so its a matter of calling the school that I found online and doing it!
I have the quinceniera tomorrow and dinner with my parents on Sunday. Tonight I will be doing dinner & a movie with my daughter.
TTYL
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
