Well there you are Ms. Hope, I was wondering where you were. Ya know my H gets texts and calls and I don't even act like I notice that he gets them. It's best to NOT talk about R but its also best to NOT talk about OW. Talking about them gives them 1st position, so don't give that to them. I think up to a point you did very well so no worries, ya already know where you might have been able to do different. I pretty much never mention our R or OW. I'll let OW do that and start to unravel and become the one who presses him so he can decide I don't need this crap.
Hope your goal next week, is I want you to find ways to laugh around H, or even enjoy a laugh with him. The bible says "a merry heart doeth good like a medicine" (Proverbs 17:22). This can be good for both of you. Can you do that?
Ok you know that H and I are associate Pastors and through this whole thing I have never talked church to him or invited him. Its not the time he's not there yet and it would have only pushed him further. Now recently he has asked me somethings about certain ministers but he did that on his own. Be sensitive to the timing of what and when to say things. So in my opinion I wouldn't tell him to go to church it may push him away from church further and they don't want to feel like your fixing them, make sense? The OW take them just as they are, don't worry they are accepting scraps that doesn't mean it will be that ways should they decide to come home.
So have you Irish danced yet??? details details!!!! LOL
yes faith in the book there is a section where it lists them all and then you can put them in order.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
