Hope, I think you saying "I can see you're busy" was very neutral and non-judgemental. He was the one that chose to snap. He was the one who lost his self-control.
And, he doesn't like to talk to you about that stuff b/c YOU'RE RIGHT! He couldn't even try to defend her!
I think it was good the way you distanced from him at the meeting. He was more concerned about you than you were about him.
Also, turkey day is still three weeks away, and another 4 until Xmas. Try not to worry about those days yet. A lot could happen between now and then. Besides, you know that it will be sad for H to be stuck with OW on the holidays w/out his family. That will hit him hard! He already worries about D15 constantly, maybe holidays without her will be the kick in the pants he needs. Maybe a little fog will lift . . .
Me:33, H:34 T10, M8 S4,S3,S9m ILYBINILWY 11/07 Separation 1 2/08-8/08 Back Home 8/08-10/08 Separation 2 10/08- Too many bombs to count:(
