Yes take the test like you are him. IT will explain each of the needs or at least it does in the book, some of domestic is household stuff, cooking, cleaning, childcare stuff I'm sure there is more I think it breaks it down.

So yes take it like you are him and be very honest.

By the way guys its prolly best you spouses don't find all these books and resources. Let em just wonder about all the new changes in you(180 on stuff they complained about).....

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca