Last night when I got home things were mellow. She was down with the kids watching TV. She stayed down and we all watched TV together for a bit and then she went upstairs to her craft room. She doesn't say much to me these days. I tell her goodnight and she says it back, when I say goodmorning she says a quick "hi".
I'm hoping that the time she has in her craft room these days will help her reflect on what is going on and what she is leaving behind. She has a good life her and I think she just needs to make some adjustments to it and things could work out perfectly. Only time will tell.