I text H at midnight 'Happy Birthday' then in the morning I texted him 'Have a good day old man ' When he got up he texted me back 'Good Morning, Thank you!!! ' then later in the morning I decided to text him a again that he was welcome to pass by tonight if he wanted to and he immediatly responded with a thank you... but no indication if he would. Well I figure he could have wrote no but didn't. LoL
I have decided to try to be a little aggressive and test my boundries, so far so good as he is responding more so it is not scaring him away.