Still can't get my head around being "back on the market". Women start making a move, I start to panic and back pedal. I guess you would say I'm not ready yet. We'll have to get over that.
I can imagine that's pretty wierd. There's nothing wrong with keeping things light and giving yourself some time to heal Phoenix.
It's funny, I read the comment of a recently re-married WAW (acquaintance of mine) yesterday, complaining about the lack of structure her teens had at their dad's home...and thinking it was really irresponsible of him to marry a woman with four little kids after having known her for only 11 weeks. I don't know the whole sitch, obviously there are two sides to the story, but all I could think was, "consequences, honey, consequences--you can't walk away and expect everything to be all your way." It's so hard on the kids. I know you're doing the best you can...and your kids know it.