Mine was "yournotneededaroundhere", which became "didn'tyougetthememo", followed by "whyisyourstuffstillhere". However, it has become, "kidsneedyourhelp" or "canyoudomeafavor". There's a lesson that XW needs to learn, the canoe at the dock. Stepping in and out becomes more difficult as the boat moves away from the dock. So either get in or get out.
BeingMe, I'm glad your H is getting in, especially at this time.
Wow Phoenix, she must have worshipped the ground you walked on if she had that many pet names for ya. I'm jealous!