And the fun begins....

[Livin4ME]

Thanks for the info Donna... when D1 goes down for her nap, I'm going to make some calls.
As far as the gf, I know there is nothing really I can do about it. I'm just asking him to give them time. He moved back out 2 weeks ago. He's been trying to have her around them since the weekend he left. They need time to get used to him not even being here ya know?!
And I believe she is truly a mentally unstable person. Not just because of the sitch, but because I have met her and the things she has told me about herself and the things I have witnessed myself are appalling. I mean, really who tells your bf's wife that you hit him when you get drunk and mad?! And that's just one of the things I will be bringing up to the courts when he files his motion for parenting time. I've told him time and time again, come see the kids. Alone. I will leave while he's here. We had that same exact arrangement last time and it worked very well. It's his parenting time, not her's. That's what his fight is for right now. Letting her spend time with the kids.
Thank you to everyone for your encouraging words thru all this. It really helps knowing people have gone thru this and been able to move on and lead successful lives personally and professionally.
Btw...I was served today.