That is a great point, T2L. I remember that story. I think I can praise him for being a good dad. This is the most important thing to him, he mentions it all the time and it makes him cry. So, I'll try to build him up for taking the kids out and admire him once they come home (even though I'll be shaking with anxiety). He did say over and over earlier this week "if i had known how much breakfast with OW would hurt you, I would never have done it."

I think he gets it, but still no expectations.

Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
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