PDT You forgot another option.....which I lived thru
He LIES to both of them!!
Tells his W it's over or it's all a lie Tells Mrs LIS he will dump his wife when.....fill in the blank.
Oh yes, had that experience also. OM told his W the affair was over, meeting my W was the worst thing that had ever happened to him, told my W that he was going to D his W so they could be together while spending a weekend away with his next GF and then convinced my W to meet him one more time and there's no way me or his W would find out. Yeah, I was on the phone to OMW 15 minutes after W left the house and she was on OM's a** shortly after. That was the last time W and OM were together as best I can tell. And judging by her reaction when she got home, it didn't go the way she wanted it to....oh boo hoo, too bad, so sad....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.