Yes CagZ don't believe what your h was saying at the time. He is in a crisis, what can you expect.

My h said he was miserable in the m. Was that 9 years of misery? If I asked him today about that, I am sure he would not agree with what he said over a year ago.

If he did, then why would he want to go to c. See it depends on what way the wind is blowing on any given day. Put NO faith in what was said by your h.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"