Thanks all for the posts (hi again PD),

I really need to post more and here it helped before and is comforting to hear from others. I guess I said failure before but it was more like questioning things I could've done better. I think the disappointment comes from regret for my D. She's absorbed this miraculously well, although I see bits of pieces of her figuring it out. She's adorable and doing "SO" well in school. She loves homework already and really loves her teacher. I'm very proud of her.

Guess the the other struggle comes with OW. She's definitely more like me overall but she has a lot of independance and sometimes this is hard on days I'm free and she wants to kind of do her own thing. I'm trying to take it slow (as we did the first month) but slowly trying to speed things up. We actually have our first trip together (going to the wine country in Napa) so that should be a big test.


M 35 W 28 D 4

Bomb 4/28/08
Found out about PA 05/14/08
Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)

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