PDT
You forgot another option.....which I lived thru

He LIES to both of them!!

Tells his W it's over or it's all a lie
Tells Mrs LIS he will dump his wife when.....fill in the blank.

H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)