thanks for the advice Donna. We are actually pretty far down the road, have been splitting time with the kids for 4 months now. We already have our agreement in place as far as splitting up furniture etc and things are very amicable. She is filing next week and everything should be done and over with in January, which is when I plan on moving out. I have been GALing for awhile now, meeting friends, making new ones, and I am VERY lucky that I am a volunteer firefighter so I always have the firehouse to go hang out it, it is my haven, my home away from home. We have both tried to be careful about not talking about the D in front of the kids and scheduling time to discuss our agreement after they go to bed. I will check out NikB's threads, thanks!
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread
