Lost, Haven't posted to you lately, but I have been following along.
I stuck to the "she deserved to know what was going on in her marriage" when my W was screaming at me for telling OMW. It's funny, W then said at one point "don't you think it was up to OM to tell his W"? And I replied "it's been going on for 9 months, when was he planning on telling her he's been cheating on her with yet another woman?" I just got the blank stare with that one.
Just remain calm. Because the perfect storm is a brewin!
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.