Thanks. Yesterday was an emotional blow. I thought I would get options. Instead they only had one program and with the bills ex is supposed to be paying thrown in, I couldn't do it. I put those in because my name is on them. I am going to try to speak with an attorney and see what options if any others that he/she can suggest to protect myself.
It is a new day. A clean sheet of paper and I can edit as necessary.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory