My H is out of the house but most don't know he is seeing another women or that he left us for her. His family was NO support... his Mom has not talked to him or me for that fact but nothing was sad to him... they said they won't judge.. ridiculous.. they are a very non-confrontational family and hold things in just like my H did and never shared that he wasn't happy with me. so that was a waste.
My family of course doesn't see him and won't so that is no help.
the OW is in his business and those are the people that don't know and if I told anyone it wouldn't come from a place of them "helping" ... I just asked him yesterday who all he has told even that we are separated and he said no one but his boss and gave no details... I would want his boss to know and I could send an anyonoums email to him but not sure what that would get me... and I wouldn't want him to think it was me. that is why I haven't done anything to date... all my H friends are all in the same business so that is why he wouldn't tell and he would say it has nothing to do with the OW ... I didn't love my W anymore.
so hard so I say you need to be careful with this.. I don't think my H is sneaky now he is out and goes out with her and her friends ... but he sees her around business functions and they just hide it and pretend nothing is going on...
I updated my post on newcomers... I will update it on my thread too...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
