I think I was at your stage at the start of this year I wasn't getting anything, but I would gladly have gladly taken anything on offer, but the more you get, the more you want, then you want it on your terms. However, W and I have made great progress but we still need to get ourselves on the same level. Little example, after the incident you quote W has now told me not to disturb her in the mornings. I'm not gonna debate it anymore but if she doesn't know what she wants and when she wants it how can I.
