Hey Julia...

"the same estate agents boards have been outside of the same houses for months/ a year now so a quick sale is highly unlikely."

...uhh, I think ANY sale is unlikely! thats what I suspected. Its going to get worse too..

I really think YOU should just get an estate agent round (not one that you might consider selling through, just a random other agent) and get the information for yourself, asap, work out how you feel about and then you will be prepared when you email him back? Knowledge is power.

I think he's not so much walking all over you, its natural to want to sell and split assets when you are no longer with someone. Hard and hurtful I know, but its how it works. And I have heard of people forcing a sale against spouses wishes, but theres no way he would do that I am sure.


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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