I have to say I haven't had it valued but I have kept a good eye on other properties in the area and so have a good idea about the value of property in my area. I am happy to get an estate agent round with him and talk to the estate agent but, DB or not, I have always been very clear in my mind that I am *not* losing money because of his bad decisions/ indecision. If there is no equity in the house, or not enough as I would like, then I will refuse to sell and we can come up with another solution together. He cannot put the house on the market without me and I am not being walked over so he can 'move on' or do whatevr he is doing with his life.
So basically, my view at the moment is that I am willing to talk about and investigate selling but if the offer is not right then I will not be accepting it. And also, realisitcally the same estate agents boards have been outside of the same houses for months/ a year now so a quick sale is highly unlikely.
