Hey Julia, good for you! I'd love to learn to knit, thats ace.

I agree with T.. and especially in the UK.. when I read his email I was astonished.. I have been trying to sell my flat for 1 1/2 years and my friend her house for a year, and we've both had about 2 viewings. The value of hers has gone done 25,000 in abuot a month. I think he is totally deluded if he thinks you will sell it.

Not being too nosey here.. but, have you got it valued recently, since June (you dont have to ask/tell him, just get someone in?) and is there still equity in it? And whats the chances of selling in your area, when did the last place sell, or do you see unsold houses in your street/neihbourhood? All questions to ask. Its not abut stalling him as such, its about making good financial decisions! Teres no way I would consider selling my house now if my ex asked me to. No way.

Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
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