H came over today, late afternoon and left a little while ago.
I could sure use your prayers because in the very near future, we do not know if we will have enough $$$ to keep making house payments.
It is scary but I am praying to God daily about this amongst other things. So far I have left it in God's hands but tonight H was very nervous about finances.
And also, he was very loving, it was as if he found it difficult to let go of me while hugging me which he did a lot of tonight.
He will be here on Saturday so I will see him then.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I could sure use your prayers because in the very near future, we do not know if we will have enough $$$ to keep making house payments.
Consider it done!!! I do know what you mean about finances. It does sound like your H is moving closer to home, but again just keep doing what you are doing. Let God!!
Thank you, everyone for your kinds words and prayers.
I wrote to my father in law several weeks ago and said we were struggling. At this point in time, I have to rule him out as being someone who can assist. I am thinking of the kids, like we all do, in our situations. My FIL in still in the punish H and punish me mode. He is still very upset at my h for getting into all of this mess with ow, losing his job, etc., and he is upset at me for not divorcing H as a way to "shake him up" which I know would have backfired and made matters worse.
I have never really looked at the laws pertaining to foreclosures, etc. It would cost more to move into an apt than what we pay here to be quite honest.
I am continuing to leave this to God.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
