at least not with my xh. shoot he WANTS me to go be intimate with someone else...told me himself he wants me to be happy and "fulfilled".. Oh, COME ON! Are you kidding me??? cagzmom, that is the same line THEY ALL have.
THEY ALL SAY THAT.
Think about it. They say it to let themselves off the hook. They say that because they are thinking about what they did.
YES, I think he is thinking about you. It hurts - It hurts HIM to think about it, so he doesn't want to. But yes, he is thinking about everything. He tries anything to avoid it, to hide, to run away from it. But when he awakes in the middle of the night, there it is, staring him in the face. There it is, all red eyes and full of malice. The monster. Yes, he is thinking about it. He cannot escape it. It's torture.
Did you ever read Crime and Punishment?
oh yes.
And I don't say this gleefully. I am not rejoicing because of it. But the plain fact is that it does not go away. Unless your husband is psychotic or sociopathic, he he cannot help but think about it.
