I wish you were closer...I know isn't half an hour close enough, I would ask for a whole box. I just need to get this out and the board has been so quiet and I am stressed about it. Thanks.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Try not to stress to much, as hard as it can be. I am off to bed soon, got to work this weekend. Next time we meet up I may bring you a whole box. Take care.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Kat, so sorry about your news. ((((Kat)))) If you can't get help through financial advice, is there any way a lawyer could help you out somehow legally? Still seems crazy that your XH can legally drag you down this. It totally sucks that their MLC's seem to make the LBS and kids suffer more than anyone sometimes. Although I think eventually you will be better than ever, and your XH will still be suffering if he keeps living the way he is. Well, at least I sure hope so!!! Karen
Yeah, I would love for karma to come and bite him in the butt and HARD!! I've stopped crying now, so that let out a little steam. I have felt like crying all day but what set me off was telling my Mom that I might be facing this. She of course will tell my Dad. It feels like getting Divorced all over again!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Yeah, I would love for karma to come and bite him in the butt and HARD!! I've stopped crying now, so that let out a little steam. I have felt like crying all day but what set me off was telling my Mom that I might be facing this. She of course will tell my Dad. It feels like getting Divorced all over again!
kat
Yeah, good and hard! I can't imagine must be so tough to tell your parents stuff like this. I am kind of glad my parents arent around to see how H has been this past year. Also my dad was kind of a tough but sweet guy, and I think would have kicked H's a**. Although come to think of it, maybe that would be fun!!!
I think that's the thing is that the WAS don't think about how they aren't just impacting their own lives, or even the LBS, but their kids and in-laws and countless family and friends are being hurt by them. Karen
Now I am going to take a course I don't want to take. I just don't know what to do. It feels so irresponsible. I just have too much debt and without him pulling his portion there isn't much hope for me to keep caught up on my own. I have to absorb this thought. kat
((((Kat)))) this is not due to any irresponsibility on your part. Its just more unfortunate fall-out from a situation beyond your control. I'm so sorry that you didn't get better news than you did today. I wish I had better advice to give you, but I think you have done what you can as far as any recourse you might have. As for Karma...its sometimes slow, but IT ALWAYS gets you in the end. I'm sure H is going to get quite a dose. Not that it helps much now. (((((hugs))))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
You girls said it. I was just talking with flirt guy via e-mail and said I just needed to hear that it would be ok. then all of sudden you guys are all here. Mysterious!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
No, flirt guy doesn't know my dilemma, he has enough on his plate. I am just so glad we are talking. We talked off and on for 5 hours last night. It is the one bright spot in this mess. Just friends, but feels really good.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey, you know I think there are no coincidences. And I do believe the stuff in our lives ultimately turn out for the best and will for you too!!! Gotta go to bed now, so good night Kat and sweet dreams. 5 hours--you must be way more tired than me!!! Karen
