I'd love to; I think everyone around here has had a tough week. I thought my week was bad until I came on today....
I know you should eventually go dark, agree with Kat, about that. Make her miss you and good for you too.
But I think that's great you're being very supportive of your W with your FIL. I know when my dad died, my H was just a boyfriend at the time, and H wasn't there for me at that time. That hurt me and I never completely forgot that I don't think; probably should have seen that as a red flag at that point. I think it's really important to be there for each other in such a really difficult time.... Karen
