I have gone what i think is refered to as ' going dark'.
I have asked for no contact, except for business catch up email on a wed.Is this about what sums up going dark.
My reasoning for doing this is twofold
1. To get some space to heal me. 2. To give him space to think
I know it is essential i do this as he is now starting to date.
He has said " I will always be in his heart " and he has said " that when ever he is with me he feels the pain of the betrayal and he cannnot live with that anymore"
For you guys who have had spouses who have had A, do you understand this feeling and will it go away ?
I ask this , so that I may have a little hope. I am so tired, sad , confused, emotional, sick and mixed up.
