i wonder too if they really notice.

SO MANY people say that they do-- but i too dont think so.
at least not with my xh. shoot he WANTS me to go be intimate with someone else...told me himself he wants me to be happy and "fulfilled"..

M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again