I am not enabling her at all financially. It took about 3 months for her to start taking care of her own car insurance, but finally she got it taken care of. She is actually paying for my health/dental insurance through her work.
She has taken more than her fair share since we split and didn't follow our agreement like she should have. But overall I am no longer paying for anything of hers.
She could probably get a temporary order for child support, but she hasn't pushed for that yet - i'm assuming she feels guilty or her rich bf is taking care of her.
