Chazz, well put. You voice well what I've been thinking.

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Sadly, the kids are the most innocent victims in this whole thing. But having one sound, fair, and rational parent is more than most have and will serve them well.


<sigh> I know that I probably wouldn't be half as upset with my W's behaviors were it not for me continually thinking about the impact to our kids. I've said before that I could more easily detach, GAL, forget W and put her completely behind me were it not for my two little ones. And that's the thing about this that continues to make me crazy.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.