Speaking of turds, what a turd he is for just dropping you immediately from health coverage the day of the divorce.

Don't talk to him. Do not. If anything, give your list of what you want from the divorce, and have your lawyer give it to his lawyer. Or bypass the lawyers and send an email to him with a list. No calling, no real life voice. Nope. Feel free to hire a new lawyer, one that eats walk away spouses for breakfast.

New account with her name on it? Oh that just has blecky all over it Gyps, I am so sorry.