And I am very, very, very scared. I feel like I would be cutting off a limb (albeit a gangrenous one). My WW also says that us breaking up would be like "losing a part of herself" for her but they're just words.
I think the only things she will possibly be able to understand are hard consequences.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)