"I think he maybe DBing me." I too think he is; in fact I think he was all along but you didn't see it that way.
"I dont need to be a b!tch anymore." Indeed. That's what got you into this mess; remember?
You have a bunch of complaints the biggest one is his hours of work; you both need to "bend" on this; he has already indicated that he'd spend more time during the day and change his unearthly hours before long. Can you discuss it more with him? What habits of yours can change or have you changed for H - some of these caused him to leave; remember? K, Maybe you are expecting too much from H? You are very bright and a great leader as you have shown here. Why not lead H a bit now? Where is that soft spot in your heart? Where is the flirty K? But remember its not just all about your feelings and emotions and I think you hold the key to the R, H does not, so its up to you to lead him to lead you. He's walking on eggshells a bit.
I'm just shooting from the hip, got to get back to work.
