I would be inclined to agree. I had a chat with my sister last night and told her my gut said to mvoe out and go dark.

Here's an SMS that I received from my WW this morning:

If I want a bit of time to myself it's because you hound me all the time. I am feeling quite ill this week and I don't want the stress. It is only yesterday I did something by myself.

Again, it is all about her. She went to the movies by herself and the other times this week she has done things either with work colleagues or for her film stuff. She has said to me in the last week "i don't love anyone at the moment" and "my love life is not a priority right now".

I think the real reason is that it's much less painful for her to sit on the fence than lose either OM or her own husband forever. It's very selfish of her and she is simply thinking that if she ignores the problem long enough it will solve itself.

Incredible


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)