K, I get it loud and clear that you need him to DO SOMETHING. But please tell us. What exactly would that be like? can you sit down and make a list of 100 things that he could do that would count as DOING SOMETHING? then possibly share it with us. then possibly share it with him. I feel like he is trying to do a big figure skating routine (the "i love kalni ice dance") on an icecube. and you are saying, WHY isn't he DOING THE I LOVE KALNI ice dance? he needs more space to maneuver. get him some more space on the ice!

Please explain to me too. Why can't he quit one of his two insanely demanding jobs?

have you thought about going to counseling together? maybe to a person trained by david snartch (passionate marriage man)? or a retreat? run by him? possibly with a greek translator if necessary? I am serious here. I want you guys to make it!

LOVE,
T