I kept thinking to myself 'when is this man leaving and can I get on with things?'
I think this all the time. When the bomb first happened I used to love when he stayed. Now I hate when he comes in the house and I feel like I can't get him out fast enough!
Cinders, your H is just feeling guilty that he is not there everyday. So he tries to act like he is still mighty important and he still has the say on how the kids and everything else is done. My ex acts the same way. It's a control issue.