He he. The blackberry merlot sounds delish, but I think converting to Catholicism is kinda overkill when I can drive to my local religious spirits shop and ask for something yummy. I'll see what my local church serves up and then decide whether I can get you to switch to Anglican (Episcopalian).
Heck, to me it ALL seems surreal, but I suppose your H's reaction is the most surreal. I love how you just 'decided' the break the agreement to be apart. I love it. I love it. I LOVE IT!
I wonder if what my W would do if I just showed up with a sleeping bag and said I was having a sleepover at her house tonight.
Hmmmm, there's been a lead-up to getting closer. Some dates, some time apart and some time together. I'll have to read up on your sitch before I say anything there. Under certain circumstances I suppose it would have disastrous consequences.
Saturday night he went to a movie with the guys and stayed over at his friends because he'd been drinking. Sunday when he came home he asked if I wanted to go visit the in-laws with him. (He has gone and visited without me through the sitch several times. I was glad he came home and asked me. He could have gone straight there.)
It was a really great day. That was the start I guess to him talking to me about how he felt. And the amazing thing was I didn't initiate it.
Last night was also surreal, more in my journal.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.