Originally Posted By: Forrest Gump
"I thought, oh no, but I calmly handled all of what he asked and what he talked about. Then I looked him in the eye and told him I loved him, period, no ifs, ands or buts about it. That I didn't need anything else to be happy, not a career, not education, not money, not fancy things."

This is what happens when you get the timing right. And all the good stuff comes along with it.

Remember.. slow consistent things.. work wonders.

Thats all I have to say about that.

You asked for me to check in..

Just look for those small "chances" to steer things.. or lead.

You just proved to me you can "see" them. Like DB says.. Do what works.

I am a simple man.. and don't like a lot of words..

So I just say....


Forest. My husband is a simple man that doesn't like a lot of words. I'm glad you chimed in here. I think the most important thing I learned is that now I have to SHOW him he's my priority and not use a lot of words to TELL him he's my priority.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.