For the Guy with Kids and a WW Diciotto

[hopeful4her]

Just got off the phone with the wife again. She called me to let me in on the drama. I guess I'm the one she feels comfortable talking to now.

Probably because I know the family or something.

She told that the sh*t is starting. His wife is being very secretive about things. Had a Wells Fargo banker stop by the room and had everyone leave. Wife tells me that she talked to her mom a little earlier. Apparantly, my wife finds out that, in no particular order,

*that her dad asked her mom for an annulment about 3 weeks ago.
*that her mom did not do it
*that her dad just married the lady about 2 weeks ago in the church
*that her mom told that her and her dad NEVER DIVORCED!

My wife ends up telling her dad that she doesn't want anything but to be there for him because she loves him. She doesn't want anything from him. She asks him in front of the wife if he signed everything over to his wife and he shook his head.

My wife lets his wife know that she doesn't want anything from her dad but that what she is doing is not right and sneeky. Her dads brothers and sisters now want my wife to be involved.

She starts to tell me that she only went there to be with him. She wasn't looking for anything. I tell her that if that is the case, then don't worry about what the wife is doing. Just make sure he is comfortable and at peace. I tell her that that is what is important. I also tell her to not let his family push her into anything that she doesn't want to get involved in. Just be there for him and thats it. I tell her that the way the wife is being, she'll pay for it later. I ask her why people have to be that way. I say again how his wife will end up paying for her actions.

She just takes it in.

Get this. I begin to tell her that I was considering going down there to pay my respects to him.

"I was thinking about going......" Click.

She lost signal. I had to call her back.

"Lost signal?"
"Yeah, stupid hospital. Well, I'll let you go. Just wanted to let you know what was going on."


I knew her family was F'ed up, but this takes things to a different level. Believe me, there's more that the wife doesn't even know about that MIL told me years ago.

And the story continues......