Good question AmyC. I do....NOTHING. I don't yell at her. I don't scream at her. I don't R talk. I don't compete to parent with her..no parenting pissing contests.

Could she be trying to build a case against ME now? Maybe.

Do I resort to stirring things up and get nasty? I don't think so. My L says, "let her parent. No one is going to take your kids away from you. You're a good father and I want to see you getting the kids 2-3 times during the week."

We'll see. Similar to AL, Jeff's state, men rarely get custody.

This morning, she was congested. She asked me if we have Sudafed. I went up and got her the box. In spite of ALL THE BS she's done to me, I still find it hard to do the same back to her. It may work against me.

I find it difficult to understand how they can carry the anger on such a daily basis. It consumes so much energy. How do they do it?

Anyway, Amy....although I don't go out of my way to do nice things for her, I don't return any of her horrible actions with ones of retribution. I focus on the kids.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;