Gosh, that's so frustrating to have that e-mail just appear like that. I think you're doing the right thing by waiting for a while before replying, and talking it through with Jody. T's right that the pressuring is something a lot of WAS do- they think getting rid of the physical parts of the old life will remove the emotional parts from themeselves, except that we know it really won't.
Give me a call if you want to talk; you know where I am.
