How do I trust again, and should I?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

The question will be where your boundaries lie if she chooses to try to reconcile.

or where they will lie even if you DON'T, or where they will lie in the MEANTIME.

To what extent are you supporting her financially? Are you in any way enabling the affair financially? (cellphone, hair, nails, clothes, gas, etc.)

Puppy