I am sooo sorry about the IC session. I personally think that is some pretty lousy advise unless she was trying to get you more riles up to fight for your M, like reverse psychology??? Maybe???
I mean she does have some good points about you making sure you are acting as a wife and not mother (I have the same issue )
I think that now that the idea has been put in your head about H not going to IC is why it is bothering you now. Ignore it, listen even though he is not going now to IC does not in any way mean he is not working on the M!! Look at his actions, he is discussing how to spend the money when only a month ago he was talking about spending it on a European hiatus. Some people just don't like counseling and he might only be stalling hoping that you guys are going to be able to work it out with out him going.
Please do not get upset about words that were said but keep looking at all the positive ACTIONS that are being done.
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