It just irks me because its from my sister of all people. She's never been married and literally clings to every guy she meets. She planned to marry the last 4 guys she was with...until they kicked her to the curb. And its just how she says it.... like she knows what shes talking about. My sis, we think, is bipolar too and she's always flirted with my H. She blames me for all of the demise of my M....nothing is on H at all.
I fully understand. My youngest sister is a miss know it all never been married 44 year old who is used to being bossy and hob knobs with the rich and famous!!
My niece, nephews and my own kids cannot stand to be around her for very long because she is very controlling. One time, she wanted to take my girls out shopping and I came along. We all went to lunch, then clothes shopping. Instead of letting the girls pick things out, she chose them. My girls did not wear the clothes hardly at all.
Ignore her. Until she has been in your situation and has kids, she has no clue what you are going thru.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thanks MWG. Mine is controlling in the way if you don't agree with her than you're on her crap-list. She's a year younger than me and has a 10 year who also acts like her at times. I'm getting over it as the day goes on though.
you are "close" and i am hoping to be able to get out of here soon. xh my actually start having d12 for his weekends again soon (he hasn't had her a full weekend since teh first of july!! we have been on the every other Sunday for 6 hour plan!)
ANYWAY --- if i was able to make it over there would you be up to getting together? thinking like i would drive over friday night and then we could hang out..maybe even the weekend..dont know just know i need a change.... and i need somewher to go where there is someone!! =)
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
Hey Cagz...that would be fun! Although there isnt much to do around here, but we could definitely find somewhere close to go!
I know how it is to want to get away. I went on more vacations with my kids this past summer than I ever have! Just to get out of the area!
I actually want to go up to the Smithfield/Selma area after Thanksgiving to do some shopping in the outlets!! If you ever want to meet up there, let me know! We can do some Window shopping and just have a good time!!
I really hope you have a great weekend! I really dont know what is going on in my sitch lately. My H still has the sep papers and hasnt gotten them back to me yet. He is toying around with the idea of wanting another chance, but I already told him he werent ready for that yet and neither was I. But we do hang out sometimes for the kids to have us both together with them.
Anyway, I hope you have a good day too Dar! And dont forget to SMILE!!!
Last edited by kissak; 11/07/0802:30 PM.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
