I am so sorry to hear this. This is ridiculous. Does your H have a CLUE about what is going on in the economy/housing market right now? Does he think he can snap his fingers and the house will be sold and he will have money in his pocket? He is not thinking straight with his brain!!!! He is not making good practical decisions about basic things like how to make rent!!
I don't know if it's any comfort, but the email actually reminded me a little bit of MichelleLT's H when he started pressuring her to file. Just sort of distant, cold, "I came up with a solution to this problem that works with me so F--- you, fill out the paperwork so I can get on with my life." In Michelle's case I think it was that he wanted to file for D before he was re-deployed. In your H's case he wants to sell the house so he can have more money for his new apartment. Whatever. Both cases they are pressuring the LBS for a quick solution.
*but,* even though I haven't been following Michelle's thread for a while, I heard she had a major turnaround in her situation, I think now she and her H are sort of dating? So... even if he is "done" like mischka said, you still don't deserve to be treated like cr@p like that. You don't deserve to be jerked around.
Please do something nice for yourself today!!!! And thank you so much for your thoughts on my thread!
