And I agree. We didn't fail. I take the blame for my part of the failure of the marriage, but only for the time BEFORE the affair happened. After that, its all on xH. I would have fought to come back from everything, if only I had someone else on my team.
lwb,
I always summed it up as the following:
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We were both responsible for our M being at the low point it was. My exW was responsible for ending our M.
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"